10 Solid Reasons Why You Shouldn’t Start Your Own Business (Unless You’re Ready to Cry in the Shower Sometimes)

Starting a business sounds romantic—until you realize you're up at 4:45AM charging batteries, juggling invoices, and wondering if anyone even saw that post you spent hours on. Inspired by Chris Williamson’s podcast and our own messy journey, this blog shares 10 brutally honest reasons why you shouldn’t start your own business—unless you're okay with self-doubt, debt, wearing 12 hats at once, and crying in the shower. From racking up credit cards to working sick and missing out on weekends, Stephanie and I lived it all. But writing this is a reminder to ourselves and maybe to someone out there too: if you show up daily, it does get better. This isn’t just a rant—it’s real-life perspective from two full-time photographers who are still grinding, still learning, and still not giving up.