A Rainy-Day Miracle: Michael & Mari’s Estancia La Jolla Surprise Proposal
Michael’s proposal at the Wishing Tree turned a stormy weekend into something unforgettable.
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Some proposals run smoothly.
Others—like this one—require quick thinking, teamwork, and a little bit of magic.
Michael and Mari’s proposal at Estancia La Jolla Hotel & Spa became one of our most meaningful shoots this year—not because everything went perfectly, but because everything didn’t, and the love, commitment, and coordination behind it still created the perfect moment.
As San Diego & La Jolla surprise proposal photographers, we’ve navigated storms, tight timelines, and last-minute changes before. But when someone flies 2,000+ miles for the moment of a lifetime, every detail matters differently.
Love doesn’t wait for perfect weather — and neither should your proposal. Whether it’s sunshine or a surprise downpour, our Engagement & Proposal Packages are built to capture your story beautifully, no matter what the forecast holds. We’ll handle the logistics, timing, and lighting — you just focus on the moment.
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How It Started: A Submission Form on November 10
On Monday, November 10, Michael reached out through our website wanting to propose to his girlfriend, Mari, on Saturday, November 15. He was flying in from Atlanta for a work trip and extended his trip by one extra day just to make the proposal happen.
Before he boarded his flight, we jumped on a call to lock in the concept. Michael told us:
“Let’s finalize everything before I fly out so when I get there, I don’t have to plan anything while I’m working.”
We had a clean plan, a perfect concept, and everything ready.
Then the weather changed.
The Weather Shift: 48 Hours to Rebuild the Entire Plan
By Thursday, San Diego’s forecast flipped from a light drizzle to a full storm rolling through during the proposal window. Our original plan—a romantic picnic proposal at Sunset Cliffs—was done. Heavy winds and rain make cliffs unsafe, and there was no way to pull off a luxury picnic in that environment.
That left us with 48 hours to:
Build a brand-new plan
Scout weather-proof options
Secure photography approval
Adjust the timeline
Coordinate with hotel staff
And keep Michael focused on work
All while keeping Mari completely unaware
He didn’t fly across the country for a proposal that wasn’t going to happen. Rain or shine, we were making this moment real.
The Pivot: Bringing the Proposal to Estancia La Jolla
We started brainstorming indoor and covered locations, and one perfect solution stood out:
Propose right at the hotel—Estancia La Jolla Hotel & Spa.
The grounds are gorgeous, intimate, and full of tucked-away spaces that feel cinematic in any weather.
But switching to a hotel location last minute isn’t simple. You need approvals—from concierge, management, and especially marketing—before photography or setup is allowed.
So instead of “crossing our fingers,” we got to work.
Between Thursday afternoon and Friday evening, we were in constant communication with the hotel:
Multiple calls with concierge
Several emails with marketing
Clarifying the vision
Confirming the space
Securing photography permission
Coordinating timing
And finally, by Friday night, less than 24 hours before the proposal, we received the official approval.
Adrenaline? Yes.
Stress? Absolutely.
Worth it? 100%.
A Special Thanks to Estancia’s Team
This proposal would not have been possible without the incredible staff at Estancia.
Huge thank you to Jack, Kai, and Sofia — you three carried this moment through the storm, literally.
Your communication, quick responses, and genuine care made the final setup not just possible, but beautiful. You helped bring this proposal to life in a week full of pivots, weather changes, and tight timelines.
We’ve worked with many hotels and vendors, and your teamwork set a new standard.
Thank you for being the calm during the chaos.
The Wishing Tree: An Idea Sparked Days Before the Proposal
A few days before the big ask, while familiarizing ourselves with the hotel, we started scrolling through Estancia’s social media and online images to scout layout ideas.
That’s when we saw it:
The Wishing Tree.
Guests hang handwritten wish tags on its branches—a tradition as sweet as it is symbolic. And the moment we saw it, we both said:
“How cute would this be for a proposal?”
The idea stuck immediately.
It felt personal, intimate, and perfect for a rainy-day proposal.
So we pitched it to Michael:
We’d write a custom wish tag and hang it on the tree for Mari to discover.
The message?
“Every wish leads to you. Please turn around.”
And on proposal day…
Mari picked up the tag.
She read the words.
She turned around.
And there was Michael, kneeling behind her with the ring he’d flown across the country with.
The gardens were quiet, the rain softened, and the moment felt like something out of a movie.
Bringing the Picnic Indoors
Since the storm made Sunset Cliffs impossible for a picnic setup, we suggested one last surprise:
Bring the picnic into their hotel room.
With help from Estancia’s staff—especially Jack and Kai—the room was transformed while Michael and Mari were out for the afternoon:
Rose-petal walkway
Elegant picnic-style setup
Soft lighting
Romantic touches overlooking the gardens
They had just a few hours to pull this off, and they delivered.
When we walked Michael and Mari back to the room after the proposal, Mari’s reaction was priceless.
It was the perfect ending to a day that started with uncertainty and ended with pure joy.
From Chaos to Magic
This proposal included:
A five-day timeline
A cross-country traveler
A sudden storm
A location change
A hotel approval process
Tight work hours
Zero room for error
And somehow, everything came together better than the original plan.
Michael’s wish came true that day—literally at the Wishing Tree.
And watching Mari say “yes” made every pivot worth it.
Planning a Proposal at Estancia La Jolla?
Estancia is one of San Diego’s best locations for:
Private, intimate proposals
Storm-proof or rain-friendly setups
Golden-hour portraits
Romantic getaways
Elegant indoor options
Garden backdrops and hidden pathways
If you're planning a surprise proposal in La Jolla or San Diego, we can help you:
Build a custom plan
Create a foolproof cover story
Manage the timeline
Coordinate with vendors or hotels
And photograph every moment beautifully
Final Thoughts
Not every proposal follows the original script.
But sometimes the detours create something even better.
If you’re dreaming of a moment just like this—whether at Estancia La Jolla or anywhere in Southern California—we’d love to help bring your vision to life.
Ready to start planning?
Reach out through our website and we’ll take it from here.
